My sweet lovely Kenda passed away in September 2020, having just been formally diagnosed five months to the day prior. We had been together 44+ years.
In addition to my sessions with a grief counselor since 12/20, I have found great solace and reflection from a book by Martha W. Hickman, "Healing After Loss." I cannot recommend this work strongly enough.
"Grief is something one must go through, as you cannot go around it."
Bless you all,
Mark N Lundgren